Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

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Hello everyone; How are you all today? How’s everything and the life so far? How 2021 going so far with you?

I miss talking to you all; I don’t know how to begin this one, but I want to go with the flow and let the words come out as it is without thinking of it.

It’s hard to fight alone, somehow we all search for that person that will be fighting with us or at least hold our backs, helps us when needed, motivates us when we are feeling down, inspires us, tells us the everything will be okay at the end of the day; That person maybe a family member, maybe a friend, maybe a lover, or maybe a chat friend…

We all search for that person and that love, even if we didn’t admit it, we search and keep searching because yeah, we all need a shoulder to cry on, a heart beats for us, a beautiful simple words that condolence us, a hug to warm us from the cold nights; a person to be there for you.

Admit it or not, we all search for that person we read about it in novels and stories, we see in movies and shows, we hear about it from other people; but do we all find him/her? Do we all find the love or friendship or even make families? Or some of us are doomed to be alone forever?!

I don’t know about the future or the next moment that will come! I don’t know if I’ll find the love or the best friend I wish for or not! I don’t know if you found them or not! But I know one thing that if you didn’t love yourself the love you search for, if you didn’t give yourself the care and love you deserve, if you didn’t give yourself the value you deserve; how can someone else comes and give it to you?

If you didn’t help yourself, if you didn’t fight and condolence yourself; how can someone else comes and fight with you or help you? If you didn’t find the power and strength within yourself, how can someone else comes and find it for you?

I remember once I read this quote:

“You are responsible to yourself, to love yourself, to care for yourself, and to help yourself.”

― Akiroq Brost

So, how can someone help us if we really didn’t help ourselves? How can we give love to someone else if we don’t love ourselves enough? How can we trust the love of someone else for us if we don’t trust the love we have for ourselves?

Telling yourself everyday that you can’t do this or that, is like dooming yourself with failure; telling yourself awful things is like making yourself sick mentally and physically; believe me when I say this, I always tell myself things bad and what happened then; the bad comes to me, but when I tried to be positive, the positive came and yeah, I’m still practicing that and it’s difficult, but I know I deserve the best in this life as you’re too…

We all deserve the best, we all deserve love and friendship and family and success; we all deserve the life we dream about; find your inner fighter, fight for yourself; find that power into you that will make you the best version of yourself; I can’t give you steps to do this, but I can say one thing; stop saying bad things to yourself and stop punish yourself for every mistake and every wrong that you did in propose or not; forgive yourself and begin again; forgive yourself to be able to ask for forgiveness.

Enough with being negative and start attracting the positivity in your life..

Thank you all for being here and for supporting me and my blog; thanks for who passes by and reads this; thanks for each and everyone of you; love you all and till the next time, smile and be happy; enjoy the life and be positive and stay save..

XOXO ❤ ❤ ❤