Coffee Date (alone time)

Spending time alone gives you the space to find yourself

Hello everyone, how are you? How’s everything? We are here again for another coffee date, but this time you’ll have that date alone, yes, you read it right; you can take this and read it while you drink your coffee or any drink you prefer…

So, let’s me take you in an alone date with coffee,  iced coffee, or any drink you love…

I don’t remember when I started going out alone, but it was for so long, it began when I realized that my friends don’t like most of what I like to do at first I was compromising, but then I realized that I need to do things in my way and want to spend time as I like.

Do you know why I love being alone? I never have to compromise

The 1st time I went out alone was hard to be honest, but it was like finding myself through the chaos, to look and see the world around me, then I realized that I don’t need to compromise my needs, wantings, and dreams.

After that I didn’t just go out alone, I started traveling alone too… It’s nice and fun to go out with friends, or family, and nice to travel with them, fun and good to share memories with them, but your time alone is a must in my opinion.

Why? Because your time alone is the time you start finding yourself, you start listening to your needs, your thoughts, and your true self; that time alone is hard, but with time it’ll be like an energy charger…

I challenge you to take yourself out one day each week, go to have coffee, or any drink at first, don’t go with a book or anything,  just you and your drink, at first you’ll look around at everyone and then you’ll start hearing your thoughts, then you’ll find yourself. 

Find that self you lost in the crowd, somehow we lose ourselves in the chaos of life, in the crowd of our thoughts, in the chaos of daily routines, and in the problems we face on a daily basis…

The alone dates will open a way to you to find yourself again and recharge and not compromise what you want and need…

Try it, challenge yourself, and do it, and share with me your experience.

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